5 questions you need to answer before entering into a new romantic relationship !!

Certainly we are different. Each of us has his qualities and what we refer to as a metaphor has advantages and disadvantages, each of us has experience in life and the first of its environment and convictions, may converge in some things may never get together, we fail in some relationships -or Klha- and succeed in some others .. responsibility for success and failure in relationships a shared responsibility, but the responsibility is your choice alone. Parents are the only people you Mufrodon & Terminals here means that something you did not Takhtrh, and except that you choose: choose friends and loved ones and the limits of your relationships with coworkers.
The lines in the next points on the table I think we all need to think about them carefully before entering into any romantic relationship.

1. Do you know yourself?

Do you really know yourself? Know your weaknesses and your property values .. you know, or fancied knowledge ?!
The answer for such a question requires effort and note to your actions and previous relationships and experience and the experiences of those around you, based on this observation and this effort; Questions will be on yourself such as: Are you express or sassy, ok .. naive or romantic or just someone Oڤr ?!
We have the qualities of all varying let's say from zero to 10 .. zero makes it non-existent subject to the development of some of the effort, and ten is not the final class that deserves a star, and with Thanksgiving, but they make you plus people all necessary and need to retreat a bit .. For example, if you see yourself as a person nice while people receives irony; perhaps it is due to you are dealing with people who are not eligible for the kindness, or the excess of kindness all necessary makes people uncomfortable in dealing with you, they feel they are trapped you, obtrusive in the question about the conditions at the time, who would prefer it not to talk Shi, willing to help them in the time they want has been to fulfill their own ..
So Sbelk to know yourself to be frank with them, watch your actions, analyzed all the time, you will always be rejected in love relationships or friendship; do not make yourself a victim; The victims are not innocent of injustice inflicted upon them, they are participants in it somehow .. just thought why you are unacceptable in a relationship? Maybe you are someone who does not improve the problem of choice or carry inside you .. you inside you.

2. Do you help yourself?

You're a doctor yourself first place; if Saranha you suffer the problem of what could and then only to help them, denial and the conviction that we are innocent of all evil, the easiest solution is always for complacency .. make yourself a victim is easier than that Thakmha and condemned .. governor yourself with love and acceptance and much as you can while .. recognize Bmizzatk and weaknesses honestly Stsaleh yourself to yourself.

3. Do you accept yourself for what it is ?!

I will never be free from defects and shortcomings, and no one appreciates it, but I found that person Ripper; kept the dance on my grave, and came up to me tongue violin .. to know your weaknesses and work all the time to repair, does not mean you totally Stsalehha but attempt Avenue is sufficient If the defect is acceptable and unacceptable means: that some people can not accept the other and some do not .. here we come to an important point, you then will not be accepted and loved by everyone .. just can not accept yourself and love and trying to change who you are makes you satisfied with them more, not a search of satisfaction .. any one !!

4. Do you like yourself?

Mother Ogress Arabic language school in my elementary school, goofy dear thin thinnest of eating at the same Cutter rancor day and night, ugly spirit intervention chapter as a player Circus comes out fire from his mouth looking for a murderer father of pupils, write today's date and address of the lesson and then heed Mtnmrh ask for answer something; Fenrf hands happily not the joy of the student-Shater, but the joy of prey while escape from the hand of the hunter Qaúliyn: I I I I; are approximately authorized one of us slowly loses his chosen disciple ability to breathe and scream Bhstrella unjustified: I am no less! I'm from the devil .. I'm selfish and loves himself is the devil .. word devil out loud so I can hear resonate inside my ears demon Taaan Taaaaaaaan .. I remember laughing now echoing with Adel Imam: destroy our homes we are Sheikha O .. selfishness is not synonymous with self-love , vanity is not synonymous with self-confidence, when do not like yourself would not you love the world, and will look for someone to blame and frustration afford, not suitable time to be a partner -mahba and loved.
«Milan Kundera» Czech writer in his novel, Ignorance: «Those who say they manifested their disappointment jumping to catch the culprits.»
Do not be the hunter, the mercy of your own humanity; If you like yourself and documented them will not be criticism of others in force to yourself mischievous; because you know if the money is right you accept him and the members to engage yourself; you do not need respond to an insult or a sense that you need to defend yourself, and if the criticism is misplaced will be a quiet self-assured that criticizes you is not right, will respond with a smile knower confident yourself out, do not be short «goofy dear» and the Prophet and the Prophet.

5. Are you successful?

In the context of a conversation with a friend and described the successful person as a successful person in his work; replied quietly What is the definition of success? After thinking reached the result is not bad never:
In human life and the existence of four circles make him feel good about yourself, happiness, and I say and success.
- Circle First: Family (family form normal is that entity which assures you that there are people present always for you, whatever them .. love you and Aqublonk and rejoice and grieve for you; whatever were rejected or rebelled against them in the period will revert nostalgic them so nostalgic for those who belong).
- Second Circuit: social relations (including friends and people who share their interests and your thoughts and your activities and your passion for life, and also includes social your activities).
- Third Circuit: your working life (including employment and labor relations)
Last Circle: romantic relationships (the relationship with your beloved)
Lucky only hurt success in all departments, but the reverse is not true, you may be unsuccessful in one of the previous circuits mentioned, and happy yourself lucky receptive to what we have reached, seeking to change, but when make the beloved only Daúrtk you so hold yourself on your own within his constituency frightened by the idea of dimension followed by the unit unbearable, hard unconsciously you because it is confined within the other Daúrtk searching for the equality of its interior has an injustice to yourself.
In the end and after all this talk; Conclusion While you're happy -ont- first accompanied by yourself; you'll find from pleased by the WBC and seeks her and you.